Relationships are made to be broken; this is an inevitable truth. But some break ups can be very depressing as well.
The initial stages after a break up are quite easy for both the partners as they feel relaxed and relieved from a long time problem. But it's only after a few days that some people realize what they have lost. That's the point from where desperation begins. In such situations people try crying and begging before their lost love to come back, but they fail. Things seem hopeless and people tend t6o get desperate.
There re ways to get your ex back when things are not really favorable for you. Let's see how....
Control Your Desperation-
The more you express your desperation loudly, the worst it could be for you. Instead of bringing her back once again, you would actually be driving her away from you. Avoid being foolish and melodramatic. You must weigh your words and think before acting. Also don't end up blaming each other unnecessarily. Try to speak and sort things out. As emotions are at its peak, you might end up making mistakes. So act carefully.
Be Apathetic-
Instead of taking much interest in your ex, you must be very apathetic towards her. It might sound counterproductive, but it really works. If you can be a bit indifferent towards her than usual, she'll make a note of that. Try to be aloof from her emotionally and she'll be the one looking for you here and there. This will make you more desirable.
Hide Yourself-
Try to hide yourself from your ex and don't let her know your whereabouts. This will keep her guessing about you and she would actually crave for you after some time. This is crazy, but works like magic. Avoid her phone calls, don't come in front of her and inform your friends about this secret as well so that they don't pass on any information about you.
Written by : Rahul Talwar
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